Article No. 34
28/December/2019
Great unmarried men and great unmarried women
will wait for their marital relationship for having sex. Great married men and
great married women will limit their sexual desire in their marital relationship
only. This makes them truly holy marital enjoyment and experiences with full
potentials. It is also the wish of God.
Now, the mobile phone becomes a part of the body to
the majority of the people in the world. There is no other such
device/technology that integrated into human life as a mobile phone does. It is
significant in terms of intimacy to each individual and wide popularity among
the general population. 5 Billion People have mobile devices out of 7.8 Billion
people around this planet. Half of the total mobile users are having a
smartphone. All facts are based on Pew Research. More educated, higher-income
people are more likely to be digitally connected. Mobile phone, smartphone or
online apps are easy to plan and execute crime than ever before in human
history. But it also helps to catch the culprits, because digital evidence is
so powerful.
The miracle of Mobile Technology
As all invention of utilities, mobile phone supposed
to reduce human suffering in one way or other. In 1917, Finnish inventor Eric
Tigerstedt filed a patent for a "pocket-size folding telephone with a very
thin carbon microphone". Early predecessors of cellular phones included
analog radio communications from ships and trains. The race to create truly
portable telephone devices began after World War II, with developments taking
place in many countries.
The mobile phone is one kind of revolution in
technological development. Mobile phone touched all areas of human life
directly or indirectly. In Business, Education, Health, Relationship, Religion
etc. So the positive part of the mobile revolution is notable to uplift human situations.
Similar to every invention, the mobile phone also being miss-used widely in the
modern generation.
Evils of Mobile Phone
There is no problem of using and having a mobile phone
for such people that can distinguish right and wrong. If people fail to
distinguish right and wrong and having a mobile phone, then the mobile phone
will have open a Pandora box that leads to evils. It affects family
relationships, child development, and social discipline predominantly. People’s
inability to distinguish good and evil, make worsening of the situation. The
mobile phone makes more opportunity to evil than good. As all people are
basically not good or but may be innocent. So the mobile phone is becoming more
vulnerable to people to do wrong things.
Emotional Infidelity/Affair
Typically, an affair is considered a betrayal of
trust. An affair is a sexual relationship, romantic friendship, or passionate
attachment between two people without the attached person's significant other
knowing. An emotional affair generally starts innocently enough as a
friendship. Through investing emotional energy and time with one another
outside the marital relationship, the former platonic friendship can begin to
form a strong emotional bond which hurts the intimacy of the spousal relationship
(for married people) or parent-child relationship (for unmarried people) or
even future sacred marital relationship. Infidelity doesn't necessarily have to
involve a sexual relationship. But deeper emotional attachment and/or sexual
undertones, which is carried out via chat, phone talk, webcam, email, text, and
other forms of communication will kill the sacred meaning of marital
relationship. It applies to both married and unmarried. The emotional
connection and sensual nature of the affair can strain the committed
relationships one or both participants are in either present or future. In
married people the betrayal of trust to the spouse, but in unmarried people the
betrayal of trust to parents and family including the person that going to marry
in future.
The mobile phone is the major medium to start, keep
and maintain Emotional Infidelity/Affair. If once an evil seed of thought of
affair enters into heart, mobile phone makes the opportunity to grow forward.
While there are those who believe that an emotional affair is harmless, most
marriage experts view an emotional affair as cheating without having a sexual
relationship for both married and unmarried people. Love marriage is getting
relevant for present situations of chaos and mistrust, but there are many risk
factors in the Indian context. Either arranged or love marriage wisdom and
understandability to choose the partner is the matter. But the affair is evil
and dangerous.
Instant Messaging apps like WhatsApp in the smartphone
makes the mobile phone more vulnerable to people with lack of
distinguishability and understandability. It misuses people’s weak emotions. In
instant messaging apps, user can think more time and opportunity to
respond/edit than a normal phone call, so it is more dangerous than a phone
call in terms of Emotional Infidelity/Affair.
Extra-Marital Affair and Mobile Phone
The mobile phone is the main cause of the
proliferation of extramarital affair in modern times. There will be a conflict
between husband and wife in a marital relationship as it is a part of life.
Greatness is not enlarging the rift between husband and wife but resolving the
conflict between them. Mobile phone, smartphone or instant messaging apps harm
husband-wife relationship at the time of conflict. Commonly, husband or wife at
the time of conflict tries to spend time online especially instant messaging
apps or mobile phone talk. At this juncture of conflict, they will find
ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend or at least a new/old friend as a comforting
zone. This will widen the rift between couples and worsen the sacred marital
relationship.
Marriage and family are making heaven on earth. It’s
the covenant between husband and wife under living God. Selecting and getting
the life partner as God planned is a great thing. Searching for a life partner
should be about selecting, not to being selected. It is better to be alone with
God than be with feminists kind of woman or man. But the great man in God and
great woman in God make their family colourful as in heaven.
Grandparents and Mobile Phone
Grandparents have the greatest responsibility to raise
their grandchildren in spiritual and moral ways. There is a special and unique
bond between grandparents and grandchildren, which is not found in parent-child
relationships. Grandparents can teach grandchildren about their values and
principles in life to become a good person in their future.
Unfortunately, grandparents with mobile phone lost
their eternal duties and responsibilities to grandchildren. They spent much
time with the mobile phone than the previous generation grandparents spent time
with their grandchildren. It makes moral free-fall in the behaviour and
discipline of the upcoming generation. It causes the development of immoral and
directionless younger modern generation.
Meaning and Purpose of life
The mobile phone is a blessing and cursing at the same
time. Blessing or cursing is determined by which hand it holds.
Distinguishability and understandability help a person to do the right thing
for a meaningful and purposeful life.
Life has a definite meaning and purpose. The
actualization of life can be experienced and achieved only by a meaningful and
purposeful life. It is absolutely impossible without God in our life. Purpose
of life can simply state that “Being more good to reach more order”. People
born with chaos and vulnerabilities, but due to the socialization of religious
study (Doctrine & Discipline) make them be more good. Meaning of life can
simply state that "It's transcending in nature by Good, Right, Happy,
Satisfied and Stable experiences as a human being". It is a fight between
good and evil. We can either fight for good or evil. Noone can both. So fight
for good with freewill. Effective life with meaning and purpose can be lead
with rationality, morality and wisdom. Rationality is based on reason, morality
based on religious doctrine and discipline, and wisdom from God. When people try
to become more successful than good, it enhances chaos and eventually leads to
a loss of purpose in life. Also when people see the physical world in limited
nature of experiences by feelings and emotions, it further leads to a
meaningless life. So God, Universe, Earth, Men & Women etc. have a cause,
meaning and purpose.
By,
Nithin A F
Doing Post Graduation in Psychology
Thiruvanathapuram, Kerala.
Email : nithinaf@gmail.com
www.NithinAF.blogspot.com
28/December/2019
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