Article No. 43
29/February/2020
(A tribute to my teachers and friends on Psychology)
29/February/2020
(A tribute to my teachers and friends on Psychology)
Beginning
of my journey to becoming a psychologist is an accidental one. For me, a strong
believer of God nothing happened in my life without an eternal purpose of God
Almighty in heaven. I opted psychology for my master’s degree program, it was
just for a sake of a choice, but now it is becoming a profession, way of life,
the meaning of life, way of breadwinning etc. Two years back in ends of the
year 2017, I was preparing for UPSC’s Civil Service Exam at Kerala State Civil
Service Academy, Trivandrum.
My favourite areas of study are Psychology of Abnormal, Social and Personality. Special interest in Psychological significance of Theology and Philosophy, and Family Structure and its influence in the development of Morality and Value System.
My favourite areas of study are Psychology of Abnormal, Social and Personality. Special interest in Psychological significance of Theology and Philosophy, and Family Structure and its influence in the development of Morality and Value System.
My
intellectual awareness developed while preparing for Civil Service Examination.
I started to know the world, how it works, who is at front runners, how it like
this, how we reached here, why systemic failures, how chaos and order works,
why unimplementability occur, what are historic blunders, and so many
fundamental knowledge received from my Civil Service Preparation. After
completing this preparation I just elevated from merely a spectator of this
world to a humble analyst of the world. Fundamental knowledge and critical
analysis for Civil Service Mains exam help me think properly rather just watch
or hear alone. Even though, I may or may not become an IAS/IFS/IPS officer, the
fundamental information and knowledge during this Civil Service Examination is
an asset to my entire life for having a meaningful and purposeful life with
proper awareness about my surrounding.
All of my
views and approaches developed primarily from the Bible. Secondarily, it is
from the preparation of Civil Service Examination, Psychological studies and
Philosophical studies. There are other influencing factors that shaped my views
and approaches but these are determinants.
Dr Jordan B. Peterson, professor and clinical psychologist at Toronto University Canada; for me he is the father of Psychology. His lectures made a strong foundation for my psychological studies.
Dr Jordan B. Peterson, professor and clinical psychologist at Toronto University Canada; for me he is the father of Psychology. His lectures made a strong foundation for my psychological studies.
Times at Mar Ivanios College, IGNOU
My first
class of Master’s Degree in Psychology taught by Mashook Sha sir. I remember
him for his teachings of the Defense Mechanism of Psychoanalytical Theory.
Also, his interventions in my confusions and sufferings to continue Clinical
Psychology in the second year; it will explain later. He taught us Life Span
Psychology & Personality: Theories and Assessment. Dr. D. Jayachandran
taught Cognitive Psychology, Learning and Memory & Research Methods in
Psychology. I remember him for his kind encouragement to peruse my research on
family even though I am not married yet.
Most
highlighting moments were debating on gender and family issues in modern life
in Advanced Social Psychology class by Dr. Archana Chandran. Without her
genuine guidance and support, my project could not be able to complete
properly. I express my sincere gratitude from the bottom of my heart. She was one of the best teachers that encourage
students to debate on social issues. It was helpful very much not only to me
but also all of them in the class. When I was debating and making arguments, my
intellectual opponent Mrs. Sowmya B. Kurup leading opposite side made excellent
counter-arguments, which really sharpened my arguments to the next level. With
her counter-arguments, my arguments will be properly tested, which yield
effective results to everybody in the class. Constructive criticism makes ideas
better. I studied, tested & practised many things in the class even though
it was limited in a few hours.
In the
second year: Dr. Kiran Kumar taught Psychopathology, Dr. Jayachandran taught
Psychodiagnostics and Dr. Leena S.T. taught Psychotherapeutic Methods. Thank
you, teachers.
My classmates
are Ajitha, Amina, Anil P.G., Anuja M.M., Beena Kumari K.C., Beena Mathew,
Benzon K.B., Bhadranandan N., Dhanush V.S., Jasmin, Jaya V.S., Juby G.S.,
Manikandan G.S., Muhisina S., Pratima Paway, Premalatha, Radhakrishnan V., Raji
Manoj, Reshmi, Retheesh R. Nair, Sanjay Wilson, Santhosh Kumar N.B., Sarath
Kumar S., Sebu J. R., Shamnad S.N., Sheela, Shinod B. N., Siddarth H., Sindhu
S., Smitha, Sowmya B. Kurup, Sreeja V. J., Sreejith R.K., Sreeju S.C., Dr.
Suresh K. J., Susan Jacob, Udayan S., Vijaya Chandran N. (All available names
are in alphabetical order, collected in the first year and apologized for any
name missed). I had a very good relationship with most of these friends. They
made this class a wonderful and amazing one. I realized that most of them are
genuine in their character and free from double-dealing. As I was the only
unmarried student in the class from regular attendees, I enjoyed all your
encouragements, comments and opinions. I express my sincere deep gratitude
here.
Struggles and sufferings to study Clinical Psychology
I assessed
myself based on Big 5 Personality traits like this; I am high in Openness, low
in Agreeableness, low in Extroversion, high in Conscientiousness and high in
Neuroticism. High in Conscientiousness and high in Neuroticism is difficult to
manage in certain life situations. From June to November 2019, I was passing
through struggles and sufferings majorly related to some kind of midlife crisis
affected me severely. I was literally suffering just after a failed attempt in
Civil Service Preliminary Exam and UGC NET exam, and other subsequent issues. I
have been criticized by family members and relatives. But most painful
criticism from my father and brother, which is deeply painful and broke my
heart and tear up my eyes. Mental pain (Psychological pain) is much painful
than physical pain. Sometimes I felt that my mother too avoiding me. I am
literally isolated and humiliated. The major single reason was about me that
not reached a position with my age. But God was with me. Sometimes I could not
sleep alone, my great mother helped me a lot. Navami, my Closest Spiritual
Confidante also helped me. Here, I learn a lesson that life is complex,
complicated and unpredictable, but we must be prepared to fight to unwelcoming
surprises in life.
In the
midst of all these issues, our second-year classes of Clinical Psychology
started. The first day, Dr. Kiran Kumar taught Psychopathology. Just one hour
after classes started I am getting tensed, sweated and started to worry that
all symptoms he describes have in me. I could not sit in the class with a
concentrated mind. I shared this problem with some of my classmates. I thought
I could not study clinical psychology, so I thought to change my elective from
Clinical Psychology to Counselling Psychology. This issue discussed with
Mashooksha sir and Dr. Vrinda Vijay, my agency supervisor of Internship at
Ananthapuri Hospital. And serious of events occurred by the grace of God, I
decided not to give up but fight alone. I was realizing the importance of
meaning and purpose in life rather than pleasure and suffering. Today, I look
back from MHC, Peroorkada to these events, I am so amazed that how my life
unfolded to me. Practical life lessons are much effective than from textbooks
or case studies.
Internship and Training
In fact and
technically both are same for me, each gave different experience and awareness
to me. My internship at Ananthapuri Hospital, Trivandrum and after the course I
went to Government Mental Health Centre, Oolampara, Trivandrum. Under Dr.
Vrinda Vijay at Ananathapuri Hospital, I learn some basic lessons of
Psychological interventions mostly among children. I got some fundamental ideas
that help me to clinical practices. She was very sincere to me to help to
become a psychologist and treat me very well. I express my sincere gratitude
here. Dr. Nelson K.J. is very Influencial and helpful in my Clinical Experience
at MHC, Trivandrum. Mrs. Sowmya gave me information about Dr. Nelson; it is a
landmark in my psychological studies and interventions. Thank you Sowmya. I
would like to write a detailed article on life at MHC latter after I left MHC.
Final say
When
learning different Schools of thoughts in Psychology like Psychoanalysis,
Behaviorism, Humanism, Functionalism, Structuralism etc. I personally like
Existentialism very much. There is no doubt about the contributions of
Psychoanalysis or CBT etc. But Victor Frankl’s Logo Therapy is best to make an
individual become more productive in a future life with proper direction and
confident. It says about the importance of meaning and purpose in life rather
than pleasure and suffering.
Life has a
definite meaning and purpose. The actualization of life can be experienced and
achieved only by a meaningful and purposeful life. It is absolutely impossible
without God in our life. Purpose of life can simply state that “Being more good
to reach more order”. People born with chaos and vulnerabilities, but due to
the socialization of religious study (Doctrine & Discipline) make them be
more good. Meaning of life can simply state that "It's transcending in
nature by Good, Right, Happy, Satisfied and Stable experiences as a human
being". It is a fight between good and evil. We can either fight for good
or evil. Noone can both. So fight for good with freewill. Effective life with
meaning and purpose can be lead with rationality, morality and wisdom.
Rationality is based on reason, morality based on religious doctrine and
discipline, and wisdom from God. When people try to become more successful than
good, it enhances chaos and eventually leads to a loss of purpose in life. Also
when people see the physical world in limited nature of experiences by feelings
and emotions, it further leads to a meaningless life. So God, Universe, Earth,
Men & Women etc. have a cause, meaning and purpose.
Thanks
I express
my indebted gratitude to my father, mother and Brother, who have given me
financial support to complete my course successfully in the last week. For me,
my family is everything just after God. I am so kind of you all.
I am
sincerely thankful to Mar Ivanios College, Trivandrum for being my study
centre.
I also
express my deep sense of gratitude to all members of Teaching as well as
Non-Teaching Staff of Discipline of Psychology, Study Center and Regional
Center of IGNOU.
I am
sincerely thankful to all people such as friends, relatives, known and unknown
persons, and living and dead personalities that help me and assist me to more
meaningful and purposeful in the entire span of my lifetime so far.
I am
grateful to My Batch Mates for their support, sincere help and co-operation to
complete my study.
Above all I
bow before the God Almighty for all the blessings that He shows on me at each
and every moment, without which the study and life would not have been a
success.
By,
Nithin A F
Doing Post Graduation in Psychology
Thiruvanathapuram, Kerala.
Email : nithinaf@gmail.com
www.NithinAF.blogspot.com
29/February/2020
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