Article No. 32
14/December/2019
In India, there are almost 93 rape cases on average
register across the country on a daily basis. However, there are much more
rapes happening in other countries proportionally than India. The rapist must
be prosecuted and punished, no doubt about that. But approach and treatment on
rape issues not on the right and truthful direction. Rejecting reality is not
only dangerous but also never going to solve the problem.
The fundamental question about a rape incident is that
‘How does the rapist and victim know each other?’ Answer to this question and
based on such treatment will help to reduce rapes in a society. The severity of
punishment on rape never going to reduce any future occurrence of rape crime or
any crime. 86% of the cases recorded by NCRB (National Crimes Records Bureau)
on rapes, the rapist and victims know each other for a long time and they are
in the relationship including physical/sexual relationships. It means that most
of the rapes/sexual-activity occur in mutual consent or interest of both. When
they start any conflict between them, pleasure turns to rape. When this reality
is being accepted by media, politicians, families, societies, people etc., then
change approach and treatment accordingly will help to manage the problem.
Crimes in Society
About 20% of the population in any society across the
world are pathologically criminals. It is distributed in such a way
cross-culturally. No laws can heal this problem. Such individuals may not
exhibit their criminal mentality to all circumstances, but it triggers when an
opportunity comes in front of them or in favourable circumstance. Basic problem
from the genetics of their genes in biological perspectives. This is evident
that no crimes ever ceased in the historical analysis of mankind. The moral standard
of the society must in the side of right and truth, not biased for political
gain to politician or profit motive to media.
General society often indoctrinated by two powerful
forces i.e. Medias and Politicians. They are interested in utilizing the emotional
side of the people for their vested interest. They don’t bother about truth and
right, but they need an emotional gain of people over grievances in society.
Actually, they are encouraging the grievances of people as well as society.
These two groups, both Media and Politician will be in trouble without their
business of grievances of people. They never want to solve social problems, but
they want to elevate social unrests and make gain out of that. This is one of
the largest contemporary problems of society. People have the right to know
both sides of an issue in a balanced way. But news and opinions of media and
politicians come out to people with one-sided bias. Thus, people in the society
are dangerously indoctrinated to untruth, it makes people to live in anxiety,
depression, disappointment, uncertainty, unrest, grievances etc.
Two groups of Evil Acts
Evil acts (rapes, crimes, violations, disobedience,
etc.) can be broadly classified into two: 1. Internally Stimulated and 2.
Externally Stimulated. People’s behaviour comes from either covert or overt.
Here, all Internally Stimulated evil acts can be regulated by legislation with
punishment, but all Externally Stimulated evil acts cannot be regulated by mere
legislation with punishment. Stimulus leads to responses is the fundamental
procedure, which develops behaviour or acts from a person. All behaviours are
based on Stimulus-Response principle. A stimulus may be internally driven
(covert) or externally driven (overt).
Internally Stimulated Evil Acts
For example, traffic violations are one of the most
seen as Internally Stimulated Evil Acts. Our inner thoughts cause to violate
red signal or not wearing a helmet or seat belt etc. This decision comes from
our choice of free will. There is no other person or the environment generally
cause you to make violation of traffic rules. Similarly, other Internally
Stimulated Evil Acts such as theft, robbery, cheating, land encroachments,
pollutions etc. Aggressions to evil acts based on Internally Stimulated reason
mostly less stronger compared to Externally Stimulated Evil Acts.
Externally Stimulated Evil Acts
A most typical example of Externally Stimulated Evil
Acts is sexual crimes. In Externally Stimulated Evil Acts, a person gets
stimulation from another person or environment. Here, the source of stimulation
plays a relevant role in causing to do evil acts. It cannot be ignored. If this
aspect ignored, it never going to reduce Externally Stimulated Evil Acts.
Similarly, other Externally Stimulated Evil Acts such as rapes, murder,
extramarital affair, attacks on doctors and government officials, destruction
of public property etc. Aggressions to evil acts based on Externally Stimulated
reasons are much stronger than Internally Stimulated Evil Acts. Because it is
not getting stimulation (provocation) from the same person internally, but
coming from the external world.
Sexual violence (non-consensual) basically start from
different kind of stimulations. It may start from seeing a film, picture,
advertisements, improperly dressed women/girls (exposed/revealed kinds of dress
i.e. purpose of clothing is not fulfilled - main reason) etc. Causes of
stimulation may not react to the same person at the same instant in the most of
the cases, it relieved later in some way or other way leads to sexual violence;
i.e. victim may not be a cause of stimulation. It is clear that causes of
stimulation to sexual violence start from one way or another way from another
person or environment.
Sexual violence (consensual): More than 86% of the
people in cases registered under rape in NCRB (National Crime Records Bureau);
have a prior relationship between accused (male) and petitioner (female). Most
of them having a different kind of sexual activities prior to this particular
complaint. From this, it is evident that petitioner (women) had many times
pleasure and lot of enjoyments and later turned into rape when she is denied to
get previous enjoyment/pleasure/other kinds of gains or repentance of her
wrongdoings in her life. Almost all sexual activities happen in mutual consent.
Great unmarried men and great unmarried women will wait for their marital
relationship for having sex. Great married men and great married women will
limit their sexual desire in their marital relationship only. This makes them
truly holy marital enjoyment and experiences with full potentials. It is also
the wish of God.
In all most all Externally Stimulations of Evil Acts,
there is only one choice that is to do an evil act. This is not based on
rational analysis but it is releasing frustration or provocation as stimulation
developed over a long period of time. It may be a spontaneous act or developed
over a long period of time.
Way forward
We need Practical and Truthful solution that only help
to solve the proliferation of rapes in society. Recent popular incidents of
rapes in the country including Unnao, UP; says that both parties know each
other for a long time. The accused gets bail based on the ground of the prior
relationship between the accused and victim. They were married or preparing to
marry, then the victim’s family or some village leader opposed this alliance,
and eventually, all these mishaps occurred. For a rational analysis of rape, it
is essential to study the point of view of both accused and victim. It will
help to reach Practical and Truthful solution to this issue.
Some politicians and media accuse the Aggressive
Masculinity of men. It is nonsense and lake of the wisdom of such people. Men
taking the pledge that will not do rape is a foolish idea to treat rape issues.
More than that framing all men are caused to rape is ridiculous. Men and women
are not one and same, they never equal. They have a different brain, biological
body, emotions, hormones, chromosomes, physical strength, sexual stimulation,
approaches, etc. All these differences make them unequal. So solutions must be
based on these facts, otherwise, it will not work at all.
3 Precautions from Rape
These three points aim not to make a rape free utopian
society, but to protect our mother, sister, wife and daughter from rape.
Firstly, women must either avoid or take a male
companion in isolated areas. It is better for women to have a male companion
always from father, brother, son or husband. Feminism and equality of gender
never going to protect our mother, sister, or wife. Secondly, all women must
have first priority on the family over career. Children must get moral value
system from family-based on God. Lastly, women must be more diligent in dealing
with men. 86% of men will not put a hand on women without explicit or implicit
consent. So women must know men’s natural behaviours and sexuality. This
principle will help you in all the ways of life. Great unmarried men and great
unmarried women will wait for their marital relationship for having sex. Great
married men and great married women will limit their sexual desire in their
marital relationship only. This makes them truly holy marital enjoyment and
experiences with full potentials. It is also the wish of God.
By,
Nithin A F
Doing Post Graduation in Psychology
Thiruvanathapuram, Kerala.
Email : nithinaf@gmail.com
www.NithinAF.blogspot.com
14/December/2019
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